Photo: Drew Graham/Unsplash What a small word for such a big idea! When I Google the word, declutter, the first nugget of wisdom it shares is a video on how to declutter your home in 5 easy steps. Sounds reasonable. I would definitely watch that video and hope for a positive change. But what about the clutter in my heart and mind? Would I get a Google result giving a recipe on how to get rid of past hurts, unforgiveness, loneliness and disappointments in 5 easy steps? I would read that. I would follow their advice diligently and do the work because I need hope that this too can be fixed. Would it help? For sure. Would it be sustainable? No way. Why? Because your identity and character and belief in yourself are flawed . Humans are flawed . Your spouse who is supposed to validate you is flawed . Your children who are supposed to bring you joy, are flawed . So what then? How then? I surely don't have the perfect answer because I am still far from it, but I do have an opinion. ...